The Notebook

The Notebook

This was the most beautiful and romantic movie I’ve seen in a long time! Real tear jerker, too. I thought the scenery was breathtaking. And the acting was good, too. This is an adult movie, not for children. There is some language, and sexual scenes; they don’t show anything, but not for young viewers! Aside from all that, it’s such a heartwarming story of love and commitment. If you love a good romance, you’ll love this.
The movie focuses on an old man reading a story to an old woman in a nursing home. The story he reads follows two young lovers named Allie Hamilton and Noah Calhoun, who meet one evening at a carnival. But they are separated by Allie's parents who dissaprove of Noah's unwealthy family, and move Allie away. After waiting for Noah to write her for several years, Allie meets and gets engaged to a handsome young soldier named Lon. Allie, then, with her love for Noah still alive, stops by Noah's 200-year-old home that he restored for her, "to see if he's okay". It is evident that they still have feelings for each other, and Allie has to choose between her fiancé and her first love.

Reselience

...we've got the means to make amends. I am lost, I'm no guide, but I'm by your side. (Pearl Jam, Leash)


I've been watching oprah show couple days ago, and i find her talk show interesting, people who are resilient that able to cope up with stress, trauma, and tragedy in life, well in my case,I've converted misfortune into good luck and found benefits in bad experiences.I'm non-judgmental about others and adapt to people's different personality styles.With the sencirity and simplicity her guests shared about their experiences it really touch my soul some people would dwell on it or learned...but in my case, i must admit that somewhere i fall in between., i had face my deepest fears of failure, went through hell but i always believe that things happen for a reason. i don't give up easily even things seems hopeless, i remain optimistic..

a reselient person is:

Express feelings honestly. Experience and can express anger, love, dislike, appreciation, grief--the entire range of human emotions honestly and openly. Can also choose to suppress their feelings when they believe it would be best to do so.

Taking care of oneself. Tend to your own needs and feelings, both physically and emotionally. This includes participating in activities and hobbies you enjoy, exercising regularly, getting plenty of sleep, and eating well.

Think better of yourself. Be proud of yourself. Trust yourself to solve problems and make sound decisions. Nurture your self-confidence and self-esteem so that you feel strong, capable and self-reliant. This will give you a sense of control over events and situations in your life.

Maintain perspective. Don't compare your situation to that of somebody you think may be worse off. You'll probably feel guilty for being down about your own problems. Rather, look at your situation in the larger context of your own life, and of the world. Keep a long-term perspective and know that your situation can improve if you actively work at it.

A CHRISTIAN MINISTER SAY, " IF WE WANT TO FORGIVE AND RECOVER FROM HURTS WE MUST NOT TALK LOOSELY ABOUT THE PROBLEM OR THE PERSON WHO CAUSED IT, i want my Faith to grow more because i know that He always had a good plan for tomorrow...
life after deperssion

AHHHH Brownout

Most of the west call it blackout, but we had two" brownouts" in the p.i today already., it lasted for an hour . it happens rarely maybe on your country, but here in the p.i people seems to put up with it all the time. are they taking the pissed? the costs of the electricity is ridiculous, just paid 130£ for two months., yesterday..hope they get sorted this problem somehow., Philippines, before and now tried to be a developed country, If you go small business you will likely lose a huge amount if brownout keeps going all the time, during that month you would've make difference to your profit or not.

Question For The Day

Why Do You Keep A Blog?

It's nice to do something creative, If you feed it with posts it grows, so bit by bit over time if you put a little work in it gets better, And it's a good way to connect with people with your ideas and thoughts. Matt teases me constantly," You love your blog more than me, dont you? :-)Anyone can answer this, What do you think?

The world is getting smaller...

Just had a quick chat of josh ,Matt's nephew and niece, Zoe on Skype., .It's amazing that even you're half away across the world from somebody and yet you can still feel like you're in the same room together,they look so much older since the first time i saw them.,it's good to hear that you guys have a great holiday in turkey,...